Traveling is a privilege and for some, like me, a lifestyle choice. With travel, a world of opportunities, new memories, stories and friendships become available for you. While there are many reasons why some must travel – for work, studying abroad, or just simply moving abroad for love/family – and there are many pros, we all share many of the same cons, including leaving behind loved ones and the pain that comes with starting over. It becomes especially hard to cope with the loneliness, especially during the holiday season (holiday blues).
Here are some ways that I fight the holiday blues, especially now that I am away from my friends in New York, and even further away from my family in Puerto Rico (since I recently relocated to Berlin, Germany). I hope these tips can help you too.
Family is not about blood. It’s about who is willing to hold your hand when you need it the most.
Share your traditions
I am a big fan of the holiday season and since in the United States we celebrate Thanksgiving (which is not really celebrated in Europe) that’s the beginning for me, next my birthday, Christmas, and then straight through to New Year’s!
All of these holidays (especially Christmas) are normally celebrated with close friends and family. Thus, this year, I decided to join an international group of friends (that I met through ‘Meet Up’) in a Potluck meal to celebrate Thanksgiving. Each person is bringing a different dish and during dinner we’ll share stories and create new memories. The best part, some people who are joining in have never celebrated Thanksgiving before, but they are interest in, and excited about, learning more about this tradition.
Make your favorite holiday dishes / drinks
I love cooking my traditional dishes and making my favorite holiday drinks and desserts. I think this is an excellent way to fight your holiday blues and to keep your foodie traditions alive wherever you go. For example, in my case, it is hard to find a Puerto Rican Restaurant in Germany, but I can cook arroz con gandules (rice with pigeon peas), roast some pernil (roasted pork), and prepare some coquito (Puerto Rico’s traditional drink, similar to eggnog). To top it off, I love to make my Godmother Neggie’s recipe for Flan de Queso (cheese custard). It’s still not quite like hers, but I am getting there!
Decorate your space
What a better way to spark your holiday spirit than by decorating your home or work space! You do not need to get the biggest decorations (for example, a huge Christmas tree) but it could be something as simple as a small decoration for the door or table. Anything addition can make a difference in your space. I suggest scented candles with warm smells like cinnamon, pine or anything that you enjoy and that reminds you of home. You can buy a nice table cloth or even a shower curtain. Little things can make a big difference and put a smile on your face.
Play your favorite holiday music
Most holidays are all about the music. Create a playlist with your favorite holiday songs and enjoy it while you are at home, or during your daily commute. You can also use it for a get-together. Do not forget to include some music for dancing (shake those hips)!
Volunteer your time
Holidays are about giving and what better way to do that than by lending a helping hand where needed. Why not volunteer your time locally (homeless shelter, animal shelter, nursing home) or just simply go around to feed the homeless. If you can make a difference in one moment in the life of a person, or make them smile, the resulting feeling of happiness is your reward! Remember, it’s all about paying it forward!
Share with us below: What do you miss most about your holidays at home? Do you have other tips to fight the holiday blues when you are away from home?
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