The True Secret To Great Style? Confidence!

The True Secret To Great Style? Confidence!

There are hundreds, probably even thousands, of things online that tell people how to improve their sense of style. A lot of these posts have some pretty solid advice. If you want to look better and more stylish, then it’s important to know how to dress and style yourself to achieve that. But style and fashion aren’t necessarily the same thing. Fashion is what you use to achieve your style, but style itself is something that comes from somewhere a little deeper. Style can only really come from you as an individual, not from anything that you place on top of yourself. But, if that is the case, how can you find the true secret to great style? Fortunately, the answer to that question is incredibly simple: confidence. Self-confidence is one of the most important traits that a person can possibly have. It can open doors to new parts of your life that you never expected. It changes how other people see you but, more importantly, it changes how you see yourself. It doesn’t matter how well dressed you are or how good you look if you carry yourself in a way that makes it seem that you’re ashamed of yourself that’s all people will be able to see.

 

Of course, having confidence is one of those things that’s definitely easier said than done. It’s one thing to be able to tell someone “just be confident!” It’s something completely different to be able to actually put that advice into practice. If you’ve ever wanted to have more confidence in yourself, but you’ve never really known how to go about making that happen then don’t worry. It might sometimes seem as though confidence is something that a lot of people just have from birth, but it’s absolutely something that can be learned over time. Here are a few simple tips to help increase your confidence levels and help you unlock the secret to great style.

 

Make some changes

The True Secret To Great Style? Confidence!

 

It’s likely that there are plenty of things that are causing your low confidence levels that you don’t have to put up with. Far too often people resign themselves to a certain situation without realising that the power to change their circumstances is completely in their own hands. If there are things that you’re insecure about when it comes to your body or your appearance, there are always things that you can do. Making some changes to your diet and lifestyle can not only help you achieve the appearance that you really want but can also make you feel far more in control of yourself. Of course, if there are parts of your appearance that are draining your confidence and making your life harder there are more significant solutions that you can take, from hair transplants to other, more serious procedures. If this is something that you’re considering, then please make sure to do as much research as possible so that you can ensure your own safety.  Of course, a change might not be just about yourself. If you’re surrounded by people who are making your life more difficult: friends who don’t appreciate you, co-workers who don’t pull their weight, then there’s nothing wrong with pulling away from those people. It’s never easy changing jobs or dropping friends, but you need to do what’s right for you, not anyone else.

 

Learn to love what you can’t change

 

The tough thing for a lot of people is that there are certain things that you simply can’t change. Sometimes is won’t matter how much you diet, you’ll never be able to achieve your own idea of a “perfect” body. That’s okay! For one thing, the “perfect” body type doesn’t exist! Everyone is different, and everyone’s bodies are unique. The most important thing that you can do is to learn to appreciate the things that are unique to your body. Little imperfections like stretch marks, cellulite and wrinkles might seem like problems at first, but it’s important to remember that they are a part of you. They tell your story and show that you’re a real person who is living a full life. It’s totally alright to think that you are attractive, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Dress however you like! Take selfies! Don’t wait for anyone else to tell you that you look great! Once you come to terms with these aspects of yourself, you’ll find your confidence levels going through the roof.

 

Be more positive about other people

The True Secret To Great Style? Confidence!

 

We’re all trained by society to be incredibly judgemental of other people. This is a genuinely tragic state of affairs that makes everyone’s lives harder and only benefits companies that want you to pay them to make you feel less inadequate. For many of us, it’s a reflex to judge other people on their appearances. Maybe it’s someone wearing clothes that don’t fit the way that they’re “supposed to” or perhaps we have a gut reaction to seeing someone dressing in an unusual way. Not only does this breed an insidious level of intolerance toward other people, but it makes it that much easier to be judgemental of yourself. The important thing to remember is that these people aren’t hurting anyone! If they want to dress, walk or act a certain way, as long as they’re being kind to the people around them, then there’s nothing wrong with that! Learning to accept other people, even when they might seem a little different or unusual to you, is a fantastic step towards learning to accept yourself. Not only that but it will help you learn to stop caring what other people think of you, which can help you embrace styles that you always like but never thought you’d be able to pull off. With enough confidence, you can pull off anything!

 

Exercise

A lot of the time people are encouraged to exercise because it’s going to make them look better. This is certainly one reason to start working out, but it’s not the only or even the best reason. Exercise is about taking control of your own circumstances. It’s a sign that you’re not going to let anything stand in your way. If you want something, then you’re going to get it! Even if you’re never able to look exactly the way that you want, you’ll feel much better about yourself because you know you’re treating your body as well as you possibly can. Not only that but exercise simply makes you feel good! It releases endorphins that put you in a fantastic mood. As tempting as laying around on the couch all day might be, getting out there and being active will leave you feeling much happier and more satisfied at the end of the day. And don’t assume that you need to start going to the gym every day all of a sudden. Even if you’re just a little more active, walking instead of driving or hitting the gym once or twice a week, that can make a huge difference not only to your physical condition but your state of mind as well.

 

Fake it til you make it!

The True Secret To Great Style? Confidence!

 

This might sound like strange advice, but it really does work! One of the reasons many people struggle with self-confidence is that it seems as though everyone around them has their lives together in a way you’ll never manage. Here’s the big secret: all of those people are thinking the exact same thing! Everyone gets nervous, everyone lacks confidence from time to time, but being able to project yourself in a way that makes you seem more confident can make a big difference to not only how others perceive you, but how you perceive yourself. Things like posture can make a big difference here. Standing up straight and walking tall will make you seem far more confident and in control. The same goes for your speech. If you’re constantly umming and ahhing your way through conversations, then you’re never going to be able to project yourself with much confidence. By speaking clearly and with a certain authority, people are much more likely to engage with the things that you’re saying. By behaving in a way that makes you seem more confident, you’ll be able to get used to how you present yourself. You’ll learn how to walk and talk confidently. Eventually, you’ll be so used to doing it that you won’t even have to try anymore. Suddenly you’ll start feeling as confident on the inside as you seem on the outside. You’ll be able to pull off your own style far more easily.

 

No matter what you’re wearing or how you look, if you can carry yourself with enough confidence, people will always respond to it positively. There are plenty of people walking around who would look ridiculous if it weren’t for the fact that they have the complete and total confidence to do whatever they want and dress however they like. If you want the secret to great style, then it’s time to stop caring what other people think of you, and learn to love the person that you are. Once you can do that, then

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